Wednesday, April 13, 2011

Holy Cow! Time to catch up.

It has been a very busy time for the Bellomy family. Sorry that we've not been posting on the ElderBellomy.com blog.

Our intent is that this blog is sort of our family journal of Eldrew's mission.

In that spirit, we will be adding blog entries over the next couple of weeks to get 'caught up.' We'll be  blogging as if in real time.

Hope you enjoy the rest of the mission!

PS: Item of business. Elder Bellomy's address has changed. He likes to get his mail at the Mission Office which has moved. The new address is:

Elder Andrew Bellomy
Texas Houston South Mission
602 Eldridge Road
Sugar Land, TX 77478

Thursday, December 9, 2010

It is official. No letter this week.

No email from Eldrew.

He emailed his sister Sarah and told her that he only had time to email one person. And, she was the lucky recipient.

At least we know (through his sister) that he is doing well.

More next time we hear from him.

Wednesday, December 8, 2010

No mail. Eldrew story, instead.

No mail from Edrew this week. We think it is transfer week. That means that Eldrew will be busy assisting with the arrival of new missionaires, the departure of missionaries going home, transfers around the mission, and training.

So, in place of a weekly update, we'll share a nostalgia moment about Eldrew.

Two days ago, Eldrew's dad drove past the Centerville City Founder's Park. They were just about to kick off the annual lighting ceremony for the city's holiday celebration. The trees in the park are festooned with tens of thousands of lights along with other holiday decorations. On the first Monday of December the lights are turned on, there is a concert, Santa arrives, and there is plenty of hot chocolate to go around.

A large Santa's chair was sitting in the center of the large stage on the center pavilion. It's a beautiful chair. I know; because building the chair was Eldrew's Eagle Scout project.

The LDS Church is big...BIG...into scouting. It is a great program for teaching morals and values...and keeping idle little teenage boy's hands busy doing helpful stuff. The Eagle award is scouting's highest award. Eldrew was never that much into scouting. However, with great leaders in our congregation, Eldrew was three months shy of 18 (the cut off date) for earning his Eagle and and only had his Eagle Service Project left to do. His Mom was determined that Eldrew would get earn his award and we all got Eldrew focused on the one final mountain to climb. Eldrew chose to create a Santa Chair for the City of Centerville.

Fred and Andrew



















With the help of Fred Beesley, Eldrew refurbished an old chair into a HUGE red velvet Santa chair and presented it to the city. Fred was wonderful and guided Eldrew through the process. He is an expert upolsterer. They stripped down the chair, did the carpentry to make the chair bigger and taller, and (with a LOT of help from Fred) added the red velvet finish. The end result is quite impressive.

The official Centerville City Santa Chair




















It was great to see The Chair. It is annual reminder of the experience...and brings back a wave of nostagia for the project and thoughts of Eldrew. We miss him a lot when we see things like the chair or other things that bring him to mind. We are, however, very proud and excited about his mission.

If we do get a late letter this week...we'll report. Just 17 days until Christmas when we get to talk to him!

Thursday, December 2, 2010

(Christmas) green with envy.

Letters home:
Elder Bellomy's emails have been arriving on time, but are awfully short. Hence, not a lot to write about.

Here is the last email home:

I know I sound like a broken record...but...we have tons to do today. I have a talk I have to prepare for our Zone Leader Council tomorrow and it is proving to be a very hard subject. So, I will give you the low down of thanksgiving. We were well taken care of. Our ward mission leader had us over. He was for a long time the VP of finance at a big oil company. They had tons of good, traditional food. Then we went to see a family named the Crossgroves. We taught a lesson there and they filled us up with 2 plates each and a plate of dessert to share. She is from Louisiana so it was cajun. Spicy turkey, cornbread stuffin and dirty rice. Mmmmm. so good. We then went and taught some more lessons other places. We have to stay busy on thanksgiving, it's not a day off. :)
Eldrew sighting.
We confess to be a little green (Christmas green) with envy. We got a real-time Eldrew sighting report this week.

We emailed Sister Saylin with some details on Christmas packages. She was kind enough to respond with an email reply and share with us that she'd been with Elderw at a Christmas dinner the night before with the senior missionaries...and that he was in the office at the very moment when she was responding to our email. It was really cool, and sort of strange to get an email from someone who was interacting with Eldrew during the moments we were getting the email. Needless to say, we were excited, happy...and yes...a little envious...that she gets to see and talk to Elder Bellomy. Most of all, we were very happy to read her kind words about Eldrew.

Just 23 days until we get to talk to Eldrew on the phone. Now that will be a real-time experience.

Mormon corner:
In the spirit of Thanksgiving, here is a Thanksgiving message produced by the LDS church.



This Thanksgiving Day, as our family gathered around the table and each spoke of the blessings we are thankful for...we thanked the Lord for Andrew. Our son, brother, and inspiration. We are grateful for his spirit and light. We are thankful that he is well taken care of and that the Lord has watched over him.

Monday, November 8, 2010

A new record.

This week is notable for Eldrew breaking the record for his shortest letter home, yet. Here it is:

I love ya'll....waaaaaayyyy busy week. No time to talk. I gained a stong testimony of Home Teaching this Sunday...I'm gonna be a bomb home teacher. A shepard...not an hireling.  : )
Love,

Elder Bellomy

He is obviously focused, busy, and happy.

And with that, we are going for a record of our own -- the shortest blog entry so far!

Sunday, November 7, 2010

Brother and Sister of the Ring.

You may recall this recent photo of Eldrew and his new companion.















Okay...we know that nobody but Eldrew's family spends endless hours staring at his mission photos. So don't feel bad if you missed the ring that Eldrew is wearing. Here is a close up:
















What is the significance, you ask? Eldrew is wearing a 'CTR' ring. Not just any CTR ring; he is wearing the exact twin to the one that his sister Sarah wears. Before Elder Bellomy went on his mission, he and his sister purchased identical 'Choose The Right' rings as a mutual commitment to live by the principles of the Gospel of Jesus Christ. They each promised to wear their rings while he served in the Texas Houson South Mission. Here is the design of the ring:














Sarah wears her ring everyday. Evidently, Elder Bellomy does as well.

Brother and Sister of the Ring. Both committed to each other — and to Choosing The Right.

Monday, November 1, 2010

Eldrew request. You get a sneak preview.

In this week's letter, Eldrew made a request. He wants Halloween photos of his nephew Preston. For your viewing pleasure, here is a sneak preview of some photos of the little lion. (The photos come our way from Eldrew's sister's blog.) Eldrew will see the photos next week in his email. (Isn't he cute!)

Somewhere over the rainbow.



Preston the Lion

Preston the Lion

Great letter from Houston.

Got a nice, long letter from Eldrew today. Elder Bellomy mixed answering our questions with a few experiences.

Q. When is Trick or Treating in Houston? (Basis for question: In some Southern states and Utah trick-or-treating is held on a Saturday when Halloween falls on a Sunday...which is a Sabbath for most residents.)
A. They do it on Sunday...though we didn't get any trick or treaters at our door.

Q. What to the missionaries in your mission on Halloween. Do you go out? Is it safe?
The mission was required to be in at 7:30pm. It's safe physically to be outside...I don't think that there are riots or shootings are anything of that nature but the danger is the spiritual things. Halloween seems to be a very immoral holiday. Lots of drunken parties and inappropriate costumes. So, we were inside. Elder Peterson gave me a hair cut with the time we had. ha!

Q. How is the Assistant assignment going? Any interesting stories or experiences?
A. Being an assistant is going great. We have just had sooo many things going on. It's crazy. So in my letters home I normally include things that I would consider to be out of the ordinary...but now...everyday is out of the ordinary so It's hard to think about what to write. We just finished the Texas Houston South Mission Quarterly Leadership Conference. It was really good. We had all the leaders come together and we have a training conference. I don't know if I told ya'll this already or not but Elder Born is training this transfer. I'm a grandfather! ha ha.

Q. Have you visited any other parts of the mission yet?
A. Not really. I haven't gone to any new parts. Though, I have gotten to return to some areas. Like League City, Hermann Park, etc....I will get a chance to go to a place called Wharton Texas and out to Pearland Texas but I really don't go to any exotic far out there places because I mainly go to the Zone Leader's areas for exchanges.

Q. I'd be interested in knowing your impression of the southern part of your mission down the coast...and how it is different from the inner city areas you have been in.
A. Well, I haven't been there yet...but it is surprising how quickly it goes from inner city to country...cowboys, cows, trucks, fields, etc. We have an entire zone that is country. The Bay City Zone.

Eldrew shares an experience.
I will attempt to paraphrase Eldrew's telling of a highly touching, but personal story this week. It is quite lengthy.

The companionship have been teaching a couple and son in a long term relationship, but not married. The father in this family was baptised as a child into the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints...but has no real memory of the Church or its teachings. One evening, Elder Bellomy and a member of the ward visited the family. They learned that the couple had been struggling with their relationship...brother Fletcher and Elder Bellomy could tell that the tension was high and the mother was upset. [Note...missionaries' do not get in the middle of family matters.] Elder Bellomy and Brother Fletcher listened, bore testimonies, and Eldre shared some passages of scripture from Alma 34 (Alma 34) a chapter of scripture from the Book of Mormon. After a prayer, they excused themselves.

Elder Peterson and Elder Bellomy were concerned for the well being of the family. On the day of their next appointment, they got a call from the family cancelling. They were disappointed and concerned. But the couple requested the phone number of the Bishop. The mother had been touched by the visit of Brother Fletcher and Elder Bellomy a few evenings before and had spent time reading, and rereading the scripture that Eldrew had shared. She and her partner had also accepted the invitation to pray together suggested by Brother Fletcher. As a result, the couple felt the guidance and promptings of the Sprit. As Elder Bellomy put it..."It changed everything." After prayerful consideration the couple decided to ask to meet with the Bishop and arrange to be married. The wedding was last Friday and the mother and son are planning to get baptised soon.

Mormon corner.

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We have had visitors to this website from nearly 80 countries around the world. We welcome all of you. For those who are not members of our faith, I'd like to invite you to meet some Mormons. The LDS Church has a website that allows people to 'meet' Mormons. Profiles and stories of Mormons from all over the world are available. In fact, you can search the collection in a way to meet a Mormon that is similar to you -- gender, age, location, ethnicity, and previous religion. You may find that there are Mormons out there who share many things in common with you.

I invite you to meet some Mormons!
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Have a great week!

Wednesday, October 27, 2010

Love from Edrew.

Looks like Edrew had time to write today. It was a short letter and that's okay with us.

The letter was upbeat, loving, faithful, touching...and highly personal.

He got his Halloween package. (Candy for he and his companion, and an EFY CD.) He was grateful.

He took a few lines to express his love and gratitude to us -- very sweet.

He also apologized that he has not written long, detailed letters.

He quickly shared some of challenges and blessings going on in the mission. The mission is picking up momentum from the last transfer when a number of experienced missionaries and leaders completed their missions and returned home.

Edrew sends his love.

More next week!

Tuesday, October 26, 2010

Meet Elder Peterson.

No email from Elder Bellomy this week. So, we'd like to introduce you to his companion...

Introducing Elder Peterson.
We were kind of sad yesterday that we hadn't heard from Eldrew...when we received a sweet email from the the Hulet family in Texas. The mail included a photo of Elder Bellomy and his new companion Elder Peterson. (Click image to enlarge.)

Elder Peterson (left) Elder Bellomy (right)



















Sister Hulet included this kind message about Elder Peterson and Eldrew:

We have had the lucky opportunity to have your sons at our home. We love the spirit they bring into our home! The last two times they have came, they talked to us about the Holy Ghost and it is so amazing to listen to them. Thank you for sharing them with us. I hope that one day my children can be as awesome of missionaries as they are!
The email was as good as hearing from Eldrew himself. Thanks Hulets!

The email was sent to Elder Peterson's parents as well. So, we got the chance to email them and introduce ourselves and exchange emails with them. Double thanks.

Eldrew?
For newcomers, it might be a good time to explain "Eldrew." It is our nickname for Elder Bellomy:
  • Elder Andrew Paul Bellomy...
  • Elder Andrew Bellomy...
  • Elder Andrew...
  • Elder Drew...
  • Eldrew...
Mormon Corner.

This week, we'd like to introduce you to Alex Boye. 

He is a professional musician, and member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. Interestingly enough, my wife and I had the chance to meet him this week. Susan (Eldrew's mother) directs the marketing and business operations for CenterPoint Legacy Theatre. CenterPoint is a new regional community performing arts center under construction in Centerville, Utah. The theatre is going to be a state-of-the-art performance center with a 540-seat main theatre and a 250-seat black box theatre. You can read about the theatre here: CenterPointTheatre.org. The theatre will be having its grand opening in January, 2011. (Please excuse the shameless plug for the theatre.) Alex was on one of the facility tours last week. That's how we met him.


Pretty cool opportunity. And, he is a very nice guy. Hopefully he will perform at the new theatre.
 
That's all for now. Stay tuned for more Eldrew news if we get a letter this week.

Wednesday, October 20, 2010

Sugarland.

This week's email from Eldrew was devoted entirely to answering the family's questions about his new companion, area, and assignment.

For starters, Eldrew is working in a city named Sugarland, Texas. You can read about the area in this Wiki article: Wikipedia: Sugarland, Texas.

Here are summaries of the answers to our questions:

What is the new ward like (demographics, neighborhoods, etc)?
 Eldrew seems happy to be there and likes the area and the members. As for what it is like, he reports that the area is fairly affluent with large homes. Most of the people he is meeting are engineers, vice presidents, attorneys, etc. He reports that he is going to gain weight because people are having the missionaries over to dinner almost every night.

What is your companion like?
Elder Bellomy really likes and respects his new companion. He is 23  years old. Eldrew compares Elder Peterson to one of his best friends who is on a mission. He describes him as being a great leader, sober, reverent, and with a strong will. Eldrew confirmed that as a companionship they are the Assistants to the President.

What is his routine like? (Missionary work and assignments)
Eldrew reports that a lot of time the companionship's time is taken up with administrative responsibilities. However, they still set goals to meet all of the standard missionary goals. It is hard, but Elder Bellomy thinks meeting their goals is "doable."

How is the work going in your area?
He reports that it is a little slow...but going. He and his companion don't tract. (Mormon speak: Tracting is what missionaries call visiting door-to-door and handing out LDS tracts (pamphlets) Instead, they go to public places and talk to people on the street. It is more productive than walking around and knocking on doors. They also get 'referrals' from the members of the Church that invite them to dinner.

What is it like to work with President Saylin?
Eldrew had this to say: "He [President Saylin] is an attorney so he likes to hear lots of ideas and then he likes to almost debate the ideas to get a feel for which one is best.  So in meetings with just my companion and me he'll ask..."Elder Bellomy, what do you think?" and I'll normally respond... "uhhhh,... ummm... uhhhh...well, I...uhh  think..."   Ha! That was just the first meeting but now I'm not afraid to give my 2 cents.  He told me the first day that he doesn't need or want a yes man.  He wants to hear all the opinions."

How is the old zone doing? (With Eldrew moving out and all new district leaders, they have had a complete change of missionary leaders.)
Elderw says: "Yeah...they are all new district leaders but the zone is tearing it up!!!  They are doing great... The new Zone Leader is Elder McKinney.  I was in his first district.  He's one transfer behind me.  He was serving as a district leader when I became a zone leader and he is just amazing."

One minor newsie thing.
Elder Jared Peterson's parents (a family Eldrew knows here in hometown Centerville, Utah) asked if they could have Eldrew's email address so their son who is serving in one of the other Houston Missions could write to Eldrew. Eldrew said no emails...just letters. However, he did report that he saw Elder Jared Peterson at the Elder Costa tri-mission meeting..."Ha. I gave Jared a hug at the Elder Costa thing. It was cool."

That is about all the news and reports from Eldrews letter. More next week.

Mormon corner.
For this week, I thought I'd share a video of the Mormon Tabernacle Choir singing a hymn that makes us think of Eldrew, Our hopes for God's protection over him, and our longing to see him again. Enjoy!

Monday, October 11, 2010

Transferred

We got our letter from Eldrew today. He starts by telling us that he was transferred last week.


So, last weeks email omitted a large detail of my life. I wasn't going to tell ya'll and let the letter from President Saylin inform you...but...I got transfered.


He has been transferred to the SugarLand 1st Ward and is companions with Elder Peterson from Taylorsville, Utah. That is a central Salt Lake Valley city about 20 minutes drive from our house. Eldrew's sister lives almost on the border of Taylorsville on the Murray side of the line. We don't know where Elder Peterson lives, but here is a Google map so you can get a sense of the general location of his hometown.


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Elder Bellomy also has a new assignment. He is going to be one of two administrative assistants to the mission president. Eldrew didn't give too many details as to what the assignment requires. So, I called Greg Whipple who lived a couple of block from us, served in the same mission under President Saylin and happened to have also served as one of his assistants. Elder Whipple, and came home from the Texas Houston South Mission the same day Eldrew arrived. In fact, Eldrew and he greeted each other as they passed in the Houston Air Port.

You may recall our blog about Elder Whipple's homecoming talk which took place in our next-door-neighbor ward — Elder Whipple...Hurricane Ike...FEMA.

So anyways...I called Elder Whipple to get some ideas of what Elder Bellomy might be doing assisting the mission president. He provided some great details. Elder Bellomy is companion to a more senior missionary. Together they have the same assignment. According to Greg, Elder Bellomy and his companion live about ten minutes away from the mission 'home' (the adminstrative office.). They are assigned to a regular missionary area and still do all the same missionary work as before. (Eldrew is excited about this.) They have a added administrative duties and spend about an hour or two in the mission home each day. The Elders assist the mission president with things like setting up conferences, meetings, interviews, assisting zone leaders. Greg confirmed that the companionship will get the chance to travel around the mission with President Salyn to assist in various functions.

Eldrew gave us an example of the sort of thing they do. This week, a visiting General Authority (Mormonspeak: An ecclesiastical leader of the LDS Church that is about equal to a Cardnal in the Catholic Church) visited Houston. Elder Peterson and Bellomy helped arrange and set up a special conference for Elder Costa to speak to the missionaries from all three of the Houston missions. Here is Elder Costa's bio: Claudio Roberto Mendes Costa (For what it is worth, Elder Costa is a terrific and inspiring leader. He came and spoke to the Church in our area last year.)

From what Greg tells us, Eldrew may fill this assignment for a few months or longer.

Eldrew is excited and looking forward to putting his heart into serving. So much so that he let us know that he will no longer have a formal prep day and that we should expect shorter letters from him because he will not have much time to write. We don't care as long as he is happy and doing well in faithful service. Go Eldrew!

Elder Bellomy ended his letter with the following:
I know that God is real. Jesus Christ is His Son and our Savior. President Thomas S Monson is a prophet and the Book of Mormon is true.



I love ya!


Elder Bellomy



Mormon Corner.











As promised, I wanted to occasionally share a few items of general interest about the LDS Church. As you might gather from this blog, Eldrew is spending two very focused years of serving the Lord. Occasionally, we get asked, "what do Mormon missionaries do?"

I found an article that sort of summarizes the daily life and routine of serving an LDS mission.

Life as an LDS Missionary: What LDS Missionaries Do. (By Rachel Bruner, About.com Guide)

This is quite true to what I (Eldrew's Dad) experienced when I was a missionary in New York City back in 1979/81. It is a wonderful time of dedication, focus, and spiritual living.

Well...that's all for this week. 

Friday, October 8, 2010

Shortest. Letter. Yet.

We finally got this week's email from Eldrew. It was four days late and the shortest letter he has written home so far. Here it is:
Wowzers. Ya'll are looking a bit too far into the future on that one.


I don't have tons of time to email. The Richmond zone had some crazy things happening in it. There are 4 districts in the Richmond zone and there are 4 brand new District leaders and 3 brand new missionaries within it. Pretty crazy.

I love you! Follow the Prophet! That's the message I got from conference.


Hope everything at the homestead is great!Short and sweet. We are happy to know that he is focused, busy, and safe.
Eldrew was speaking in shorthand...so allow us to explain some of the context.
First, we teased Eldrew in the letter from home this week that his sister Sarah hoped that he didn't get married too soon after his mission because she wanted to hang out with him. Obviously, that got a "Wowzers" reaction. I don't think that Elder Bellomy who is living a monastic life can even comprehend such things.
Eldrew and his companion have an assignment to coordinate the efforts of a group of LDS missionaries known as a 'zone.' The Richmond zone has twenty missionaries divided into four 'districts.' Each district has two or three companionships (two missionaries) from which one of the missionaries is designated to be the district leader.
The zone apparently had almost all of its district leaders going home and ended up with a new district leader in every district. In addition to that, there are also three new missionaries who just arrived in the mission field. Eldrew and his companion are probably very, very busy coordinating all the changes, keeping everyone focused, and helping with all the transfer adjustments...moves...etc. A busy time for him.

His reference to conference is about the semi-annual church wide conference for the LDS Church. It is held in Salt Lake City and features a weekend of meetings, hymns, and sermons from Church leaders. It is a major event in the LDS religious experience. The conference is broadcast all over the world. The overall message Eldrew got from conference is that the faithful should follow the prophet.

The transcripts and recordings of the October 2010 conference can be found here: 2010 Conference talks -- language selector

We are going to add a new feature to the blog "Mormon Corner." In honor of, and to support Elder Bellomy's efforts to introduce the LDS Church to the world, we are going to occasionally highlight a story or aspect of the LDS Church that may be of general interest. If you are interested...great...enjoy. If not, thanks for visiting and readling about Elder Bellomy. We are grateful you stopped by and love all of you.
 
Mormon Corner.
 
Here is the story of Stephanie Nielson. You can read her blog at: Nienie Dalogues Blog.


Sunday, September 26, 2010

JACKPOT! Photos from Elder Bellomy.

Okay...there aren't many...but at least there are a few.

















Hot and sweaty from the humid Texas sun, Elder Bellomy and Elder Mulitalo are cooking up some African Chicken and Rice Stew.

















Elder Bellomy and Mulitalo before Abraham's baptism.
























for some reason Eldrew send the photos inside a "Fall" greeting card. Typical of his sense of humor.
























This is the inside of the card.

We will report the latest news on Monday or Tuesday when we have heard from him.

Guitars against the wall.

Please excuse this overtly religious, long, and mostly un-mission-related blog entry from Eldrew’s Dad.

It has been a week of cascading nostalgia about Eldrew. It has been a week for me to ponder the some of the significance of Eldrew and his mission.

These feelings were triggered when we ‘de-junked’ the basement den. Leaning against the wall were guitars that Eldrew played before his mission. Seeing the guitars brought a flood of Andrew-related memories. Eldrew loves playing the guitar. Part of the rhythm and soul of our home were the sounds of Andrew singing and playing in one room or another. Each room had a different acoustic character and Andrew would choose a room to play in based on the musical mood he was in.

Playing the guitar has even been a part of Eldrew's mission. To his delight, Elder Bellomy discovered that he was allowed to play his guitar (with appropriate song choices) while on his mission. He found it very calming as he dealt with the stress of the new missionary transition. He and Elder Rios sang hymns to people they were teaching to Eldrew playing the guitar he had purchased. At one time, he even gave a few guitar lessons to the Bishop of a ward he was assigned to. However, the mission rules changed and Eldrew gave the guitar to someone in the ward.

This week's Eldrew nostalgia jumped a notch when Elizabeth (Eldrew’s older sister) found and posted a video of Eldrew playing and singing at a family get together in 2007. It was in the living room of his grandfather in  up state New York.



Seeing the guitars against the wall made me think of Eldrew…seeing the video of Andrew playing made me think of our trip to New York…thinking of the trip to New York made me think of our family visit to the Sacred Grove...thinking of the Sacred Grove made me think of the significance of Eldrew's mission.

To Mormons, the 'Sacred Grove' is a most unique and hallowed place. Located near Palmyra, New York it is the place where God the Father and Jesus Christ appeared to Joseph Smith the first prophet of the restored Church of Jesus Christ. Without getting into the theology of it all, visiting the Sacred Grove can be a profound experience for a Latter Day Saint (Mormon).

Here is a photo my kids and I at the Grove. (I love my son-in-law Spencer as one of my kids.)

















In 1980, I (Eldrew’s Dad) visited the Sacred Grove while I was on my mission. At the time, I was a fairly recent convert to Mormonism. I had been an atheist and joining the LDS Church as the only member of my family caused quite a sense of cultural shock. As much as I loved the Gospel and the Church, I often felt as if I was a stranger in a foreign land. Mormonism was a life’s journey that I was walking by myself. When I knelt and prayed in the quiet of the Grove, I had a profound sense of loneliness and had only faith in the Lord as to how my life would unfold.

Fast forward to 2007 when I visited the Sacred Grove again. This time, I had my entire family with me. The fruits, miracles, and joy of living the Gospel flooded into my mind and heart. Words cannot express what it meant to me to be with Andrew and the rest of my family in the Grove. It was one of the most profound experiences of my life.

To bring this nostalgia full circle…Eldrew’s mission is an extension of that Grove experience. Andrew’s guitar playing brings joy into my life. Eldrew, as a second generation Mormon on a mission have created very deep reflective feelings within me.

I am deeply touched by the faithfulness and service of Elder Bellomy as he works so hard on his mission. I am amazed at the growth, commitment, and faith of a young man who is giving up two years of his life to serve the Savior and to bring light and hope to the people he meets. If the people he teaches experience a fraction of the joy I have had in the Gospel, then his time has been more than profitably spent.

Isn’t it amazing the feelings that can come from seeing a couple of guitars leaning against the wall?

Postscript:

No discussion of guitar playing in the Bellomy household would be complete without a shout out to Adam Bellomy — Eldrew's older brother.

Adam was the first guitar player in the Bellomy family and was the direct influence that led to Eldrew learning to play. Adam's playing has been every bit as much of the  rhythm and soul of our home as was Eldrew's. Adam came first and was more into amplified  rock and roll. When the two boys got to playing...the foundations of our home shook to the core!

Tuesday, September 21, 2010

"Stresses and blessin's." The week of September 13th.

A good week for Elder Bellomy. He describes it as a week full of "stresses and blessin's."

For starters, he got letters from three members of the family. He is always excited to hear from us. Three in one week is a great week for him.
Anyone is welcome to send him postal mail. He'd love to hear from you.

His address is:
Elder Andrew Bellomy
Texas Houston South Mission
4627 Austin Pkwy
Sugar Land, TX 77479-2146

More blessings and lives touched.
Elder Mulitalo and Elder Bellomy continue to teach and touch lives. This week Eldrew filled us in on the baptism of Ansu and Elizabeth. Steven, a recent convert to the Church...and newly ordained Priest performed Elizabeth's baptism. Eldrew is excited to see Steven grow and push himself in the Gospel.

Eldrew also reports that this week they began to teach a man named Ezekiel who has prayed and received a confirmation of the truthfulness of the 'Book of Mormon' and is going to be baptized early next month.

The missionaries also visit and teach members of the faith who have lost their way and no longer associate with the Church. Elder Mulitalo and Bellomy taught the Rodriguez family this week and the Spirit was very strong and they were able to answer the questions of one of the daughters who is about Eldrew's sister's age. He describes it this way:
We taught the first lesson and the Spirit was just very strong and everyone was paying attention and interested and it was just like D&C 50. When we teach by the Spirit of Truth, it is received by the Spirit of Truth and both are edified and rejoice together. There was just understanding on both sides...I could feel the spirit as I testified and the really less active daughter said, "you answered so many of my questions, I totally understand now." It will be cool to see them come back to church.
He finishes by saying:
Everything is going great here, I don't have much else to write about other than I love ya'll and I'm excited to have eternity with ya'll. It's all about enduring to the end (and no, I don't mean the last year of my mission...but that too).
And, of course...Eldrew PROMISES to send some photos home. (Have we heard that before?)

Elder Bellomy Trivia.

No photos from Elder Bellomy. He promised again this week that he'd send some. He didn't come through. I guess he can't email photos. I'm tired of these posts NOT having any photos. So...I am making up a pretense to include a photo. Eldrew trivia!

Did you know that before his mission Eldrew was in the original 'High School Musical' movie as an extra in the bleachers in one of the scenes?

It is true. If you squint really hard in a scene with a crowd of students you can see Eldrew. He earned $50. The interesting part is that he was offered a bit part to be a basketball player on the opposing team in the basket ball scene. He turned them down because he didn't think he'd go a good job.

There you go. A photo and some Eldrew trivia.

Tuesday, September 14, 2010

Hello home! A good week.

We got our weekly breath of fresh air from Elder Bellomy. He is doing well and is happy.
Hello home!


So, this week was a good one! The zone did great, my area did great, we had zone conference and moved our P-day to Tuesday so we could work on Labor day.

No weekly letter is complete without this promise:

I will get pictures and send pictures next week. Elder Bellomy Promise!
LOL...we will believe that when we see the photos.

One of Eldrews friends is serving a mission in Japan. Elder Turner is putting together a small photo album a way of 'introducing' themselves to people. I asked Eldrew if he thought this would be something he's like to do. He said:
Interesting about Mitch's mission. I've heard of that being done in Brazil and other foreign areas. I think it's because when you see a bunch of obedient, white kids they look like robots and you don't want them in your house. For us in Texas, everyone well knows us. In the more African parts we are called Church People or Preachers and in all the others we're the Mormons (angry and annoyed tone assumed and included). We strive hard to ask soul searching questions and teach with power and authority so they recognize us as servants of the Lord...I don't really care if they think I'm normal. ha ha
I guess that Elder Bellomy has been doing a little thinking about the time left on his mission and how he wants to serve.
I want you to look up a song and listen to it. It's an EFY song on 2005 track number 2. I think it's called "What will you do with the time that's left" It talks about life but I've been paralleling it to my mission. It's a great song...I've been thinking about it especially because 3 of the 4 district leaders [in the zone]are going home in 3 weeks. I love these great men...I couldn't help but cry when they bore their departing missionary testimonies in zone conference...No matter where we are in life or callings (or my mission), there is always time to make changes, repent and put it all on the altar. Like the song says, "What will you do with the time that's left? Will you give it all with no regrets?"
You can listen to the song here: Video: Time that is left

Here are the lyrics:

What will you do with the time that’s left
Will you live it all with no regret?
Will they say that you loved till your final breath?
What will you do with the time that’s left?

Oh, Hallelujah!
Oh, Hallelujah! Hallelujah!
Amen

What will you do with the time that’s past?
Oh and all the pain that seems to last?
Can you give it to Jesus and not look back?
What will you do with the time that’s past?

Oh, Hallelujah!
Oh, Hallelujah! Hallelujah!
Amen

What will He say when your time has come?
When He takes you into His arms of love?
With tears in His eyes will He say well done?
What will He say when your time has come?

Oh, Hallelujah!
Oh, Hallelujah! Hallelujah!
(Lord be present in all my ways,
help me follow You all my days oh Father God)
Amen

What will you do with the time that’s left?
Will you live it all with no regret
Will they say that you loved till your final breath?
What will you do with the time?



He finishes this week's letter with the following:


But, I wanna say I love you two very much and hope everything is going great. I love ya'll!

Tuesday, September 7, 2010

Busy times.

We were correct. Elderw sent his letter today.

Busy boy:
In the letter he describes how busy and stressed he is at the beginning of each month. In addition to all the missionary work he is doing...and wants to accomplish...he has three additional activities this week — Zone Leader Council Meeting, Stake Correlation Meeting, and District Leader Council meeting. Of course there is a lot of planning and preparation for these meetings. Eldrew also got to pair up with Elder Peterson who is one of the missionaries who is an Assistant to the President for what is called an 'Exchange." This is in a different area and a different missionary than his usual area and companion. This switching up is a training opportunity for Eldrew.

Eldrew seems to be very happy and is taking the extra assignments in stride. He is very grateful for Elder Mulitalo who is working hard with Eldrew over the holiday to put in extra effort. Edrew reports that even with all the extra duties, he and Elder Mulitalo were able to reach all of their goals.

Tropical Storm Hermine:
I asked Elder Bellomy about the big storm...he reports that the mission car was damaged:

Tropical storm huh? Now that you mention it, our car was tipped over when we walked outside today...We thought it was vandals... We must have slept through the whole ordeal. ha ha jk.
(I don't think we will get a real storm report until next week.)

Passing the Sacrament:
He also had this to report on the progress of two recent converts and their progress in the Church...
This last Sunday was also a special one for me. Abraham and Steven, our recent converts, passed the Sacrament for the first time. There was some bumps along the way but they were happy with themselves after. It's helping them grow. The mission has seen me look at the Gospel in a whole new way. Before, the church as something you just do... and the doing was the end result. For example, you read to read, or pray to pray, come to church to come to church...I didn't see really why we do all those things. It's not just the doing, it's the testimony and knowledge we grow.
That 'year' thing:
I also asked him if now that he has been out on his mission a year if he needed anything...replacements...new shoes...etc. He commented on the whole year thing:
In response to the Year mark thing...That was weird. I was too busy for the fanfare. I've heard you're supposed to burn a shirt. That's a retarded thing to do, so I didn't do it. ha ha.
I date however I feel is more important than my one year anniversary of my departure is the date of September 6th--yesterday. In one year I will be stepping off a plane on the 6th of September ha ha. Weird.
Gratitude:
Besides the blessing of Eldrew serving a mission, our entire family has been blessed this year. So far, we are weathering the recession, Adam and Lindsay's wedding, Spencer graduating from grad school, Sarah turning 18, Sarah graduating from high school and going to college, our first grand child, and an empty nest! We mentioned to Eldrew all the blessings we are having and that we are praying for him and his health, safety, and success. He replied:

Well, I wanna let you all know that I love you. And I pray for ya'll as well.
The name of the game lately for me and I think for our family is gratitude. We have been blessed with so much and the Lord deserves the get the props! I love ya'll, bye!
(Did you catch the double "ya'll"? He really has down South for a year!)

It is good to see him happy, working hard, and positive. The Lord is watching over him and blessing him. More to come next week.

He's going to get soaked.

We did not hear from Eldrew yesterday. He usually writes home from a public library computer. Since yesterday was a holiday, we suspect that their prep day gets shifted and thus we get delayed emails.

So the only news so far this week is not from Elder Bellomy...but from the weather. Tropical Storm Hermine is coming ashore Southwest of Houston.


As you can see, Eldrew is no where near the center of the storm. Even so, they are predicting that the Houston area will get between 2" to 3" inches of rain in the next two days.

We'll see if he mentions the storm in the next email we get from him.