Guitars against the wall.

Please excuse this overtly religious, long, and mostly un-mission-related blog entry from Eldrew’s Dad.

It has been a week of cascading nostalgia about Eldrew. It has been a week for me to ponder the some of the significance of Eldrew and his mission.

These feelings were triggered when we ‘de-junked’ the basement den. Leaning against the wall were guitars that Eldrew played before his mission. Seeing the guitars brought a flood of Andrew-related memories. Eldrew loves playing the guitar. Part of the rhythm and soul of our home were the sounds of Andrew singing and playing in one room or another. Each room had a different acoustic character and Andrew would choose a room to play in based on the musical mood he was in.

Playing the guitar has even been a part of Eldrew's mission. To his delight, Elder Bellomy discovered that he was allowed to play his guitar (with appropriate song choices) while on his mission. He found it very calming as he dealt with the stress of the new missionary transition. He and Elder Rios sang hymns to people they were teaching to Eldrew playing the guitar he had purchased. At one time, he even gave a few guitar lessons to the Bishop of a ward he was assigned to. However, the mission rules changed and Eldrew gave the guitar to someone in the ward.

This week's Eldrew nostalgia jumped a notch when Elizabeth (Eldrew’s older sister) found and posted a video of Eldrew playing and singing at a family get together in 2007. It was in the living room of his grandfather in  up state New York.



Seeing the guitars against the wall made me think of Eldrew…seeing the video of Andrew playing made me think of our trip to New York…thinking of the trip to New York made me think of our family visit to the Sacred Grove...thinking of the Sacred Grove made me think of the significance of Eldrew's mission.

To Mormons, the 'Sacred Grove' is a most unique and hallowed place. Located near Palmyra, New York it is the place where God the Father and Jesus Christ appeared to Joseph Smith the first prophet of the restored Church of Jesus Christ. Without getting into the theology of it all, visiting the Sacred Grove can be a profound experience for a Latter Day Saint (Mormon).

Here is a photo my kids and I at the Grove. (I love my son-in-law Spencer as one of my kids.)

In 1980, I (Eldrew’s Dad) visited the Sacred Grove while I was on my mission. At the time, I was a fairly recent convert to Mormonism. I had been an atheist and joining the LDS Church as the only member of my family caused quite a sense of cultural shock. As much as I loved the Gospel and the Church, I often felt as if I was a stranger in a foreign land. Mormonism was a life’s journey that I was walking by myself. When I knelt and prayed in the quiet of the Grove, I had a profound sense of loneliness and had only faith in the Lord as to how my life would unfold.

Fast forward to 2007 when I visited the Sacred Grove again. This time, I had my entire family with me. The fruits, miracles, and joy of living the Gospel flooded into my mind and heart. Words cannot express what it meant to me to be with Andrew and the rest of my family in the Grove. It was one of the most profound experiences of my life.

To bring this nostalgia full circle…Eldrew’s mission is an extension of that Grove experience. Andrew’s guitar playing brings joy into my life. Eldrew, as a second generation Mormon on a mission have created very deep reflective feelings within me.

I am deeply touched by the faithfulness and service of Elder Bellomy as he works so hard on his mission. I am amazed at the growth, commitment, and faith of a young man who is giving up two years of his life to serve the Savior and to bring light and hope to the people he meets. If the people he teaches experience a fraction of the joy I have had in the Gospel, then his time has been more than profitably spent.

Isn’t it amazing the feelings that can come from seeing a couple of guitars leaning against the wall?

Postscript:

No discussion of guitar playing in the Bellomy household would be complete without a shout out to Adam Bellomy — Eldrew's older brother.

Adam was the first guitar player in the Bellomy family and was the direct influence that led to Eldrew learning to play. Adam's playing has been every bit as much of the  rhythm and soul of our home as was Eldrew's. Adam came first and was more into amplified  rock and roll. When the two boys got to playing...the foundations of our home shook to the core!